whats it with girls

[mihaeagle3]

do i just have really bad luck with women or do women just not got for nice guys anymore?
ive been dumped 3 times in 5 months all of the girls said i was really nice and everything but didnt really give me a good reason for just dropping me
and these arent the one night stand girls either
so whats up?
help anyone?

[big_mike]

its the type of girls your going after. be more open minded, the right one is out there for ya.

[ami de nikki]

do i just have really bad luck with women or do women just not got for nice guys anymore?
ive been dumped 3 times in 5 months all of the girls said i was really nice and everything but didnt really give me a good reason for just dropping me
and these arent the one night stand girls either
so whats up?
help anyone?


You'll find what you are looking for, when you are not looking for it. Just think positive and realize that the girls that let you go were not right for you.

[kempenstein]

You'll find what you are looking for, when you are not looking for it. Just think positive and realize that the girls that let you go were not right for you.
I totally agree. I found the girl of my dreams when I wasn't looking. Turns out she had been right in front of me the whole time, and I never even thought a relationship with her was a possibility. Love works in mysterious ways!

[Luck_e]

i found that most women are hippocrites...they SAY they want a man to appreciate them and love them and they aren't superficial....BULLSHIT....all they look for is a stud model with a fat wallet (or a handful of no limit platinum cards) and everything else be damned....in my life experiences i've discovered women are as full of bullshit, self centered and superficial as the men they talk shit about....but that's just what i've seen.

[big_mike]

if you want a barbie doll, you will get a gold digger. If you want a normal girl, you will find a whole new world of appreciation open to you. I have dated every type out there, and lemme tell ya, the super hot, super gorgeous ones, are just that... SUPERFICIAL !!!

[ami de nikki]

i found that most women are hippocrites...they SAY they want a man to appreciate them and love them and they aren't superficial....BULLSHIT....all they look for is a stud model with a fat wallet (or a handful of no limit platinum cards) and everything else be damned....in my life experiences i've discovered women are as full of bullshit, self centered and superficial as the men they talk shit about....but that's just what i've seen.

I agree with you to a point. It's just hard for nice guys and nice girls to find each other.

But doesn't your point mean that we are all pretty much the same? I mean, if most women are hypocrites and look for the same thing guys do, I guess we the same?

I think I just confused MYSELF. Time to go back to lurking...

[ami de nikki]

if you want a barbie doll, you will get a gold digger. If you want a normal girl, you will find a whole new world of appreciation open to you. I have dated every type out there, and lemme tell ya, the super hot, super gorgeous ones, are just that... SUPERFICIAL !!!

Whoever can find the super hot, super gorgeous ones....that are the exception to that rule....can conceivably "have it all". The best of both worlds.

But even so, I'm sure those "perfect" couples still find the same small stupid meaningless and unimportant things to disagree and argue about. Just like we all do.

[big_mike]

oh of course they do, but as you move up in quality of women, you move up in bullshit.

[kempenstein]

oh of course they do, but as you move up in quality of women, you move up in bullshit.

true, but any woman is capable of extreme amounts of bullshit, regardless of quality. It all comes down to who they are on the inside!

[Davey]

I have np with women.. I'm a freak magnet and I'm happy.. :lurker

[Luck_e]

women....can't live with them..can't live without them....can't shoot them!

[leaddogman]

What can I can I'm a man and women are weird creatures, one day they want one thing the next another. One day the small ring you bought them is good the next the want a bigger one. Men are much easier to work with they mostly only want one thing, which women will give if the code to the happy place is reached. :) I know no good advice here.

[RavenNeverMore]

TRust me when I tell you that I am a Scud missile when it comes to women. I could walk into a room with 1000 different women to choose from, and I will walk out of there with the one woman that is the LEAST suited for me. I've pretty much resigned myself to the fact that with my luck, the woman that was made for me was recalled for a manufacturer's defect.

The line I always get is, "You have a heart of gold, and so much to offer the right girl. She is going to be very lucky when you find her." (PTOOOOOIE!)

[Luck_e]

women...can't live with them can't shoot them

[kittyboh]

But women have an equally difficult time finding the right guy. Not all of us are looking for a fat wallet. Some of us are actually looking for some quality. Guys are easily just as sleezy and manipulative as women are. You just gotta weed out the bad ones before you get to the good ones. They're out there, you just gotta look suuuuuuper hard to find them.

[Luck_e]

that's the problem for people like me Kitty. we neither have the patience nor the tolerance for that

[excalibur1814]

Men, women, all the same. Within reeason.

I think that it's all about balance. mihaeagle3, you've managed to go on dates, that's the first step and that's the most important (Many don't even get that far!!!). We all like a chase, we all like a bit of fun and we all like excitement. Women as well as men get bored very quickly and at the start, here's a few tips.

1 - Everything she says is absolute garbage
2 - Same for you, it's not important.
3 - None of it matters
4 - relax that bit more

You can say to me that in your mind you're relaxed, calm, but you hasve to literally smell relaxed. "Wow, you're so relaxed" leads to 'does he like me? Are my clothes ok? Is my top low enough for him to check out my fab breasts' Well, not quite. It's like having to have a mild jog to get a slice of cake. Offer the cake straight to her and bam, no point, go home, 'you're a really nice guy, but..' If she has to slightly work for the cake then she'll appreciate it more.

Same for men, but usually we 'are' looking down tops so the job is done, unless the guy can dis-engage his thingy for three seconds to realise the woman is boring as hell, loves herself far too much etc.

Women go on about Mr.Right all the time while passing by partners that could make them float and it's the same for guys as well. I honestly believe (Despite stories and other things) that there is 'no such thing' as 'the one'. What 'is' out there, is someone that you can bond with, click, share personalities that make you happy.

So... next time you or anyone else say's 'what's up with women' or 'all men are after one thing', just think about it for a minute.......

Or give up and watch a movie

[Luck_e]

i have a head ache...anyone have any aspirine??